The Bad Day Blues

baddayOne of the central figures of the Bible is David. This king from the Old Testament was no magician, but he witnessed one of the greatest vanishing acts in the history of mankind.

While David and his men were away from their camp and in the heat of battle, some of the enemy had managed to ransack the camp and take the people hostage.
David and his men returned to the camp in hopes of a good meal and a restful night’s sleep. When they arrived, they learned of the tragic events that occurred a few hours earlier. The grief-stricken and heart-broken soldiers were overcome by their emotions and began to blame David. Their loyalty vanished, and bitterness reared its ugly head.
David began to experience the bad day blues. When times like this happen to us, we can learn from the 4 Don’ts of David’s Day (I Samuel 30:1-8):
1. Don’t Stuff Your Emotions (David wept and cried out to God)

2. Don’t get bitter.
(1) Whenever we internalize our feelings too much, the pain intensifies and we lose perspective.
(2) We look for whoever is available, and we begin to play the blame game.
(3) Whatever the reason, we need to look for the opportunity to forgive (Ephesians 4:32).

3. Don’t go it alone (David encouraged himself in the Lord). David moved from an internal focus to an external focus and eternalized his perspective—He began to look at his situation through God’s eyes.

4. Don’t do nothing—Do something! David began to fight the present evil. Assess your situation, get advice from wise friends, right the wrongs that you can, and move on with your life.

Annie Johnson Flint wrote the following words, and they are appropriate to our discussion:

God hath not promised skies always blue,
Flower-strewn pathways, all our lives through;
God hath not promised sun without rain,
Joy without sorrow, peace without pain.
But God hath promised strength for the day,
Rest for the labor, light for the way,
Grace for the trials, help from above,
Unfailing sympathy, undying love.

Think About It!

Inflection Points

An inflection point can be defined as a moment of dramatic change, especially in the development of a company, industry, or market (American Heritage Dictionary).  Wall Street defines an inflection point as a point on a chart that marks the beginning of a significant move either up or down.

Due to the stress and strain of the moment,  inflection points can be hard to recognize in the present; and, they are more easily seen from the perspective of history.

A significant inflection point in the Old Testament involves the Hebrew nation and its long awaited and highly anticipated move into the Promised Land.  Instead of crossing into the land of milk and honey, they chose to hunker down in a dust-choking, water deprived wilderness.

The dramatic change in the life of this fledgling nation occurred when they listened to the report of 12 spies when they returned from a secretive mission.  The majority report was given by 10 spies:  There are giants in the land, and we look like grasshoppers in their sight.  The minority report was given by Joshua and Caleb, and they spoke of the vast resources of the Promised Land, and said, let’s claim the promise.

Their decision changed the course of history.  They acted on the minority report and instead of going up and forward, they went down and back.  As a result of believing the minimalist view, every one of the 12 spies died . . . everyone except 2 of them:  Joshua and Caleb lived and continued to play an influential role in birthing a new nation.

The older generation continued in their resistance and died in the wilderness, but Joshua and Caleb continued in their persistence.  Even though their bodies aged, their faith was renewed each morning as step by step they moved forward to possess the promise of God.

Looking back through the pages of Scripture, I see several inflection points:

  • When Andrew met Jesus, he found his brother Peter and took him to Jesus.  This inflection point led to dramatic changes in the lives of many people.
  • When David decided to leave the battle to his soldiers to peek into the private life of Bathsheba, he changed the course of many lives. Innocent people died and others suffered consequences that were not of their own making.
  • Paul’s sad epitaph in regard to Demas is haunting words:  Demas has forsaken me, loving the present world more than the one to come. What decision led to this dramatic change?

When faced with a crisis or a major decision, I encourage you to listen to the counsel of Solomon:  There is wisdom in a multitude of counselors.

When you meet an inflection point, ask yourself a couple of questions: [1]  What will Mother or Grandmother think of my behavior when they hear of this?  [2] What will happen when my actions make the front page of the newspaper and my picture is on the evening news?

What is the source of your strength and what principles of truth guide you when your life intersects with an inflection point?  I hope this is enough to keep you thinking.