Yesterday I posted an article that gave you a fact a day to concentrate on for each day of the week. The Tuesday fact is Small sparks can start big fires, so mind your manners and tame your tongue. The following steps will help you accomplish this:
Step 1: Recognize the power of this mouthy muscle. James says the tongue:
- Boasts great things
- Is as destructive as fire
- Is a world of unrighteousness
- Pollutes the whole body,
Step 2: Rely on God for the strength you need:
- James said the simple fact is this: no man can tame the tongue (3:8).
- Philippians 4:13: I am able to do all things through Him who strengthens me
Step 3: Realize that God hears every word you say:
- Speak as though you are in God’s presence and talking face to face with Him.
- Make the words of Psalm 19:14, your prayer: Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.
Step 4: Reevaluate your motives. Pause throughout the day to assess your conversations, and ask yourself:
- Why did I say what I said (Proverbs 17:27)?
- Have I used my words to build people up or to tear them down?
- Have my words been healing or hurtful?
- Has my conversation been more than just rank criticism and slander nitpicking and complaining (4:11; 5:9)?
Step 5: Retune your heart. The tongue is the index of the heart, and the words you speak reveal the true condition of your heart. Your heart will never be pitch-perfect until you begin to practice His principles:
- Ask God to examine your heart and mind: Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts (Psalm 139:23).
- Fill your mouth with praise for God, so there’s no room for profanity.
As you think about the five steps above, keep in mind that God’s desire is for you to put away lying. to speak the truth (Ephesians 4:25; Psalm 15:2), and to be a person of true Christian character.