I’ve see it happen more than once: A husband and wife stand side by side as they watch a raging fire engulf their home that housed a lifetime of memories. I’ve heard them ask: “What will we do now. How we will get through the loss of everything we’ve worked for?”
And bad news, there have been hundreds of times that I’ve had to inform a family that their loved one has died, and I’ve heard the lament: “How will I get through life without him?
Then, there is the dreaded “C” word. I’ve lost track of the number of times I’ve sat in a hospital room and seen a friend sucker punched with the news that the diagnosis is cancer. They almost always wonder aloud: “Is it rough going through the chemo treatments?”
There’s a key to getting through rough times. If you focus on just the rough the door of possibilities slams shut and there’s no resolution to your heartache. If, however, you focus on getting through, you open the door of possibilities and unleash the potential of God’s promises.
Rough times either make you or break you; they either make you better or bitter.
God is in the business of getting you through the rough times: “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, nor shall the flame scorch you. For I am the Lord your God (Isaiah 43:1-3).”
The key to manage your rough times is to “enter through faith into what God has always wanted to do for us—set us right with him, make us fit for him—we have it all together with God because of our Master Jesus. And that’s not all: We throw open our doors to God and discover at the same moment that he has already thrown open his door to us. We find ourselves standing where we always hoped we might stand—out in the wide open spaces of God’s grace and glory, standing tall and shouting our praise.
There’s more to come: We continue to shout our praise even when we’re hemmed in with troubles, because we know how troubles can develop passionate patience in us, and how that patience in turn forges the tempered steel of virtue, keeping us alert for whatever God will do next. In alert expectancy such as this, we’re never left feeling shortchanged. Quite the contrary—we can’t round up enough containers to hold everything God generously pours into our lives through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:1-5).” ~The Message